Is your ex acting like you, the person who so recently was the center of his world, don't mean anything to him anymore? Can he really have lost what he felt, or is there still a spark in there somewhere? The truth is, your ex may not even know how he feels about you...that confusion may be part of what led to the breakup. 
YOU can know, however. All you need to do is see how your ex is treating you, because actions speak louder than words. There's an idea out there, an idea of a "scale of feelings." Basically, it says that how we feel about someone has two extremes: on one side, total indifference, and on the other side the extreme feelings like love or hate. After the "let's be friends" line, you can tell how your ex really feels about you by how he treats you. If he doesn't initiate any contact at all, you may be on "indifference" end of the scale...
BUT, if he tries to contact you two or three times a week, it's clear that you're still on his mind, which means you're closer to the other end of the scale. It can get confusing when his actions say he's still in love with you, while he tells you he's not interested in a meaningful relationship anymore...but he's not just playing with you, he may honestly not understand what you mean to him. Until something is done, this game will just keep playing out.
So if it looks like your ex is still into you, and doesn't know it...how do you put an end to these games and win your ex back?
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