"Bust the Windows Out Your Car"

Jazmine's Sullivan's song, Bust Your Windows has caused quite a stir amid the dating few. Sullivan's song describes a woman's feelings of betrayal, hatred and ultimately revenge for catching her man cheating on her.

Hence, the lyrics:

I bust the windows out your car

After I saw you laying next to her

I didn't wanna but I took my turn

I'm glad I did it cuz you had to learn

I bust the windows out your car

you should feel lucky that was all I did

After 5 whole years of this bulls***

Gave you all of me and you played with it

Sullivan's song describes what a lot of us ladies would like to do once we feel we have been done wrong by the one we thought and believed to love us. Sullivan isn't the first woman scorned that cried out about it over the airwaves. There is Carrie Underwood in "Think Before he Cheats," and Blu Cantrell's "Hit 'em up Style," to name a few.

However, busting your man's window's, carving your name in his vehicle (which is quite incriminating ladies), burning clothing, prank calling his momma and holding his babies captive are not the way to go ladies. For some reason, defacing a man's property when a woman is scorned seems to make us feel better.

"Women who feel scorned understand that they cannot hurt a man emotionally in a way that is connected to the love, because he has already done that, but they can attack his status and his property as a way of diminishing his position in the world," says the BV love coach, Rebecca Brody.

Brody is an expert on women exhibiting behavior which she calls "catching the crazy," especially as it relates to infidelity and relationships.

"When a mate is unfaithful, women inevitably ask themselves "What's wrong with me?" or "What did I do to push him away" or "Am I not enough?'" notes Kerika Fields, author of 'He's Gone, You're Back: The Right Way To Get Over Mr. Wrong'.

"It's a blow to our ego and self-esteem, and understandably so, which is unfortunate because sometimes infidelity is not about us, it's about the man, his choices and issues."

Not to mention the fact that all legal liability will fall on YOU and you may find your self paying big fines or spending some time in jail for your actions. Vandalism offenses are often punishable as misdemeanors or even felonies, with strict consequences such as:
Fines
Mandatory community service
Incarceration (jail time)


Vandalism can take many forms, including:
*Broken windows
*Graffiti, from insignificant scribbles to huge paintings on buildings, trains, and buses
*Theft of property
*Arson
*Posting leaflets and handbills
*Damage to mailboxes
*Destruction of playground equipment, library books, campground or beach facilities
*Defacing gravestones
*Egging or toilet papering property
*Littering

Bottom line ladies, if in fact you are scorned to the point where you feel you HAVE to get revenge, don't screw up your OWN life by ending up with a criminal record or behind bars. Be SMART about what you do. Report him to the IRS or the state for not paying child support. DO NOT call his job under any circumstances because KARMA will pull your number soon :)